This book is written in a very conversational matter. It is as if Violet Blue is talking to some very young or at least inexperienced woman (or man). Her tone is delicate, there is no shame in this book. This is a woman with years of experience and training talking to a friend or peer about g-spot. What it is there for, how to find it, why she should own it and how to tell her partner about it. There is even some talk in this book to the partner of this woman, explaining how best to get to it and why it might be important.